
Henry Nowen who authored the book called 'Wounded Healer' was a high official in the Anglican Church. Later he left the Anglican Church and embraced Catholicism. When a journalist asked Nowen for the reason for his change of mind, he replied, "The Sacrament of Confession astonishes me. It attracts me."
After his resurrection, Confession was an everlasting gift that Jesus bequeathed to his children. He entrusted the administration of this sacrament to his apostles, “If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven them; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained” (John Chapter 20 verse 23). Here the forgiving act is not done by the priests, but by God himself through the priest. It is when one confesses his sins with true repentance to the priest that the divine graces which he received during Baptism are restored to him after being lost because of the sins he had committed. Repentance, the Church teaches us, is the sorrow one feels in his heart, the hatred for sins, and reiteration that he won’t commit sins again. It is to those who unburden themselves from the weight of sin that spiritual joy and peace are given by God. “Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you” (Psalms Chapter 55 verse 22).
There is no need for those who are tormented by the consequences of sin and sense of guilt to be in despair. If you decide to return to Jesus, the rest will be done by him. The words of Jesus make this amply manifest, “I have come to call not the righteous but sinners” (Matthew Chapter 9 verse 13). In order not to ruin one’s life under the bondage of sin, one should come into the love of Jesus. It is then that divine graces will grow in him. “Come now, let us argue it out, says the Lord, though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be like snow; though they are red like crimson, they shall become like wool” (Isaiah Chapter 1 verse 18). The Church has given us some blueprints to her children so that they can live in unity and reconciliation with their Father.
1. REMEMBER YOUR SINS.
If you are to remember your sins, the assistance of the Holy Spirit is essential (John Chapter 14 verse 26). People with deep repentance can recollect all the iniquities they have committed. King David said with a heavily repentant heart, “I know my transgressions and my sin is ever before me” (Psalms 51 verse 3).
2. REPENT.
The Psalms say that Kind David repented throughout his life for his transgressions. The 51st Psalm has been written in the tears of repentance shed by David. Repentance leads us to inner transformation.
3. CONFESS YOUR SINS.
“If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us” (1 John Chapter Chapter 1 verse 8). “If we confess our sins, he who is faithful and just will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John Chapter 1 verse 9). We should confess our sins to the priest with deep repentance. Only those who are humble in their heart can do it. Mother Theresa used to confess every week. She did that even when she was in her deathbed. The Sisters who were nursing her asked her, “What sins did you commit, Mother, to confess?” Listen to the reply of the Mother, “If I did not thank the doctor who examines me daily, if I don’t smile at the nurses who look after me, if I did not show compassion to the poor, won’t the heart of the Lord get wounded?” It is the person who confesses all his sins with an open heart that experiences spiritual joy and who gets remission of his sins. If a patient is too shy to disclose his wound to the doctor, how can the doctor give him the appropriate medicine to heal the wound?
4. FIRM DETERMINATION NOT TO SIN AGAIN.
Those who have made Jesus their own should live as witnesses to Jesus. The Samaritan woman relinquished her sinful life and lived as a witness to Jesus (John Chapter 1 verse 29 to 29). The instruction Jesus gives to the woman caught in adultery is noteworthy, “Do not sin again” (John Chapter 8 verse 11).
5. DO PENANCE.
Although when a confession is made with repentance, the sin is forgiven, we have a duty to those whom we offended through our mindless transgressions. We have a duty to compensate their loss. We should grow in the knowledge that our God is a forgiving God. “I will forgive their iniquity, and remember their sin no more” (Jeremiah Chapter 31 verse 34).
The Confessional is the Cleansing Pond where we can be cleansed from our sins. It is the Pilgrimage Spot that God has given to us for getting forgiveness for our transgressions. Just like air is needed for life, Confession is essential for spiritual growth. Through this, healing is received both for the mind and body. We should confess so that we do not lose the divine grace reposed in us during our Baptism. Through Confession we ensure that we remain the children of the Most High.
Courtesy: Vachanolsavam June 2007 Issue/ Eternal Truth Network